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Changing the World 101 Newsletter
May 5th, 2010






 
 
 


In this issue

Many people are gearing up for their first volunteer trip to the developing world this summer. If you are one of them - bravo! – this month’s newsletter is dedicated to you.

On your first trip to a developing country the experience feels as though everything happens all at once. In the amount of time it takes for your flight, you are whisked away from your day-to-day comfort and into the whirlwind of an entirely new lifestyle in a foreign land. There are new foods, new economies, new problems, new people, new forms of entertainment – new everything. It’s an exciting time.

One common problem that many people experience, is becoming overwhelmed by the details, and loosing sight of the big picture. In this issue I will discuss two big picture strategies designed to make your trip exceptional.



Strategy 1: Interview yourself

If your experience is anything like mine, your trip will be life changing. A good way to put your growth in perspective is to conduct a self-interview prior to departure. I have provided questions for you to write answers to; they are designed to create a snapshot of where you are right now. When you return you will be able to see how much you have developed.

-What has been happening in my life recently?

-What inspired me to volunteer in the developing world?

-What are my personal goals for this trip?

-How will I know if I’ve achieved these goals?

-What most excites me about the trip?

-What is my biggest fear surrounding the trip?

-What are my most important values right now?

-What is my happiest moment in recent history?

When I'm faced with questions like these my tendency is to answer them in my head. However, I have found that when I write the answers out, my thinking goes deeper. I recommend that you take an hour to focus without distraction and actually write out the answers to your self-interview.

Once you have completed the interview, seal your answers in an envelope and set it aside for when you return home. The interview will serve as a portrait of yourself just before undertaking one of the most formative experiences of your life. I promise you will be glad you have done this.



Strategy 2: Say "yes"

During your volunteer trip you will have an overwhelming number of opportunities and invitations. The best way to make your experience truly exceptional is to develop the habit of saying yes. Do you want to come to my village for a meal with my family? Yes. Do you want to attend my mosque/temple/church? Yes. Do you want to play soccer? Yes. It doesn't matter if you don't like the local food, aren't religious, or are a terrible athlete. The answer is yes.

When you're tempted to say no to an invitation, remember that at some point you will have to return home and may never have that opportunity again. By saying yes as often as possible, you will experience your trip to its fullest potential.

PLEASE NOTE: There are times to say no too. The most important rules while traveling are to constantly exercise common sense and to trust your gut. If you are invited to something that just doesn't feel right, or a person approaching you seems a bit off, then say no and excuse yourself.



Conclusion

Interviewing yourself and keeping yourself open to new experiences are two big picture strategies to help ensure your volunteer trip lives up to its fullest potential. By saying yes as much as you can, you will make your time away from home rich, diverse and flooded with amazing encounters. When you return home you will have an existential snapshot of who you were when you departed so that you can see how much you have flourished.

Bon voyage!



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